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Elayna Fernandez ~ The Positive MOM

Elayna Fernandez ~ The Positive MOM ~ Empowers, Equips, and Encourages moms of all ages and stages to BE POSITIVE and Discover, Live, Balance, Monetize, and Radiate their Passions so they can create JOY, BALANCE and SUCCESS on their own terms without mommy guilt, regrets, burnout, inertia, or overwhelm.

I once heard someone some words that greatly moved my heart. I feel it is my duty to share them with you: “Let go of your ego’s need to be right. When you’re in the middle of an argument, ask yourself: Do I want to be right or be happy?” I looked up the definition …

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No man has “Woman Abuser” written on his forehead. It’s almost the opposite way: the abuser is charming, paints a perfect picture, and ALWAYS makes sure everyone else knows how generous, loving, and supportive he is to “his woman.” As women, and mothers, it is our responsibility to become conscious, careful, and tactful not to …

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Being positive is NOT being perfect. Positive moms experience “negative” feelings and emotions (perhaps even more often than others!!). The Law of Emotional Choice (Greg Anderson) establishes that we take responsibility for our moods and we actually manage our emotions. It’s about acknowledging our feelings and sorting out which ones serve and which ones don’t, while …

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Yesterday was one of those days where OVERWHELM was the beginning, middle and ending of every event. It certainly takes MASSIVE FAITH to overcome the fear and impatience and that comes with UNCERTAINTY. I’ve found that GUIDANCE and CLARITY comes from weird places. I was talking to my best friend in search for his advice …

Read More about My 5S Life – A 5-Step System for a Productive Life

Honesty is, unarguably, my highest value. Deception comes in many flavors: white lie, compulsive lie, saying half the truth, hiding the truth, twisting the truth, exaggerating the truth, denying the obvious. All these taste like pain to me! I read that the average person tells 4 lies a day or 1460 a year; a total …

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